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Radikale endringer

Jeg får inntrykk av at folk synes jeg er svært ytterligående som velger å forandre min kropp. Jeg har tenkt en del på det. Om hvor drastisk endringene er og hva som skjer om jeg skulle angre. Folk spør meg nemlig om det. Jeg tror ikke jeg kommer til å angre, men om så skjer skal jeg bare tenkte på følgende: Det finnes mange mennesker som er født med mannskropper som lever som kvinne, om de kan leve som kvinner på tross av mannlig kroppslig kjønn, kan jeg også gjør det. Jeg har jo allerede fitte.

Når du tenket at det er drastisk å endre sitt kroppslige kjønn så er det for meg et stikkert tegn på at du trives i din kropp, at du trives i ditt kjønn og at du hadde angret. Jeg trivdes ikke med å være kvinne, jeg trivdes ikke med en kvinnekropp og jeg angrer ikke. Og jeg kommer heller ikke til å angre, og om jeg angrer lover jeg å blogge om prosessen tilbake til den kvinelige kjønnsrollen. Den bloggen må jo bare bli en hit.

 

 

Kirken

Alle veit vi at statskirken har en litt spesiell stilling i vårt land. Det er en grunn til at det heter statskirke, eller det er det egentlig INGEN god grunn til, men det betyr i allefall at vi alle blir snik-kristna fra vi blir født. Fra vugge til grav følger denne kirka deg og sniker seg inn i fødsel, skole, høytider, hjemmet ditt, undervisningen din, giftemål, alle andre serimonier og til slutt din død.

Alle mennesker som blir født i Norge meldes inn i statskirken hvis en eller fler av forelderne er medlemmer, dette skjer uavhening av om man blir døpt eller ikke. Så må man aktivt melde seg ut. Det kan man gjør fra man er 15 år, eller med samtykke fra foreldre. For å ikke fortsatt betale skatt til statskirka må du melde deg inn i et annet trossamfunn.

Kirka har fått en del krtikk for denne praksisen (på lang nær nok, om du spør meg) Men den har i allefall begynt å sende ut brev til alle sine medlemmer med gjevne mellomrom, eller sa jeg alle?! I så fall så mente jeg det ikke! Det finnes nemlig en gruppe mennesker som man aktivt IKKE sender brev til og det er udøpte ungdommer mellom 15 og 18

Altså mennesker som er livssyns-myndige, men som ikke er døpt. Er det tilfeldig at de velger å ikke aktivt gjøre disse oppmersome på at de er medlemmer av statskirken?

NEPPE

Ord

En del av disse ordene har gode norske oversettelser, andre ikke. Så jeg poster hele lista på engelsk.

LGBTQIA is an acronym that stands for gay, genderqueer, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, transsexual, questioning, queer, intersex, ally and asexual.

Lesbian A girl or woman who has significant (to oneself) sexual or romantic attractions primarily to members of the same gender or sex, or any person who identifies as a member of the lesbian community.

Gay One who has significant (to oneself) sexual or romantic attractions primarily to members of the same gender or sex, or who identifies as a member of the gay community. May be of any gender identity, but is often used to refer to gay males.

Genderqueer A person who feels they don’t fit in society’s gender binary. Often, but not always, this identity includes a political desire to challenge society’s gender norms and gender identity.

Bi(sexual) One who has significant (to oneself) sexual or romantic attractions to members of both the same gender and/or sex and another gender and/or sex, or who identifies as a member of the bisexual community

Transgender A person who transgresses gender norms and self identifies as transgender. Often used as an umbrella term which can, but does not necessarily, include androgynes; cross dresssers; genderqueers; non-, bi-, or third-gendered people; drag queens and kings; men; women; two-spirit people; genderbenders; intersex people; transsexuals and others. Transgender people can have any sexual orientation.

Transsexual One who changes one’s sex to align with one’s gender identity. People who live as a member of a different gender than they were assigned at birth prefer to be called man or woman as appropriate for their chosen gender. May be of any gender identity.

Queer Reclaimed derogatory slang for the gender and or sexual minority community

Questioning One who is in the process or stable state of questioning their sexual identity/orientation/preference.

Intersex One whose external genitalia at birth do not match the standards for male or female, or one whose sex glands do not totally match the sex assigned at birth, or one whose sexual development does not match the sex assigned at birth.

Ally A person who confronts homophobia, heterosexism, heterosexual privilege, biphobia, transphobia and society’s gender norms in themselves and others on both a personal and institutional level.

Asexual One who has no significant (to oneself) interest in sexual activity, or who identifies as asexual.

 

Hatmail

Denne trivelige mailen lå i min innboks i dag.

Hello «Luca»,       you are what you are and have to deal with it, like everybody else. Stop trying to pretend to be «better» than others because you consider yourself «transsexual». You have to play your gender role, you have to do what society expects from you. If you don’t, you have to suffer from the consequences.

Just look what you have between your legs. If you have male private parts, you are a man, if you have female private parts, you are a woman. Understood?

I am sorry to inform you that your gay and transsexual experiment won’t have a future. Please try to understand this. It was fun for a while, like watching weird looking animals in a zoo, but only as long as you were hiding and not showing your transsexuality in public. Years ago, transsexuality was merely the base for novels or movies. But now that you are demanding equal rights, we normal (=straight) people have to face a real problem. You are naughty and greedy. You have overdone things. And because you demand too much, you won’t get anything. «Luca», there is a reason why two sexes (male and female) exist.

I have to say that you don’t understand what you and your fellow transsexuals are trying to do. You want to question what we straight people value.

I want to say that I will use every legal measure to keep off LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transsexual and Queer) people from having equal rights.

There isn’t an endless amount of human rights available, we have to deploy our resources carefully and wisely.       Eventually you will understand this one day. «Luca», it is unbelievable how you, the LGBTQ people think that your sexual orientation could ever be socially accepted. It is such a miscalculation to assume that you would ever be equal. You can never expect that. Never ever. I will take every legal measure to fight you, I will try to avoid contact with you in real life. I don’t want to be touched by you (e.g. by shaking hands), I don’t want to sit next to you in a bus, I don’t want you in or near my family. I might have already met transsexual people, that’s why we need some sort of worlwide database where all the LGBTQ people are listed. So that we normal people can avoid you.

There are things in the world that are just not okay. Being transsexual is one of them. I would love to be able to avoid you, but even in my peaceful, normal city there was a «Pride» this summer, a LGBTQ march for equal rights. How dare you to claim that being LGBTQ is normal.       Most straight people don’t show openly their aversion for you, but that doesn’t mean that they approve your lifestyle. Straight people might not beat you up, they might even talk and smile to you, but only on the outside. On the inside they wait until the laws that protect you will become invalid and then…dare you.       If you can’t conform to our (straight) society, you won’t be a part of our society.

We will get rid of the the LGBTQ perverts. One way or another.

Transsexuality is, like pedophilia, an abnormal sexual behaviour. A disability. A flaw. Something you HAVE to fight. «Luca», if you can’t control your emotions then you’re – excuse my language – f****ed.       Discipline, self control, rational thoughts should always dominate your mind.       I’m not very religious, and I don’t know what God wants. We just have to deal with the facts: why are far more than 90% of all people normal (=straight)? Because we are RIGHT and you LGBTQ people are WRONG.

The reason why you are LGBTQ is that you want attention, or you want to find an excuse why you can’t live your life to the fullest, or why you don’t need to reproduce, maybe you even want to find a reason to sue your former employer for firing you. Then you tell everyone ‘Oh it’s because I’m LGBTQ, he/she fired me because of this!’

Your wrong transsexual orientation disgusts me to no end.       S

uppressing your wrong transsexual feelings, that’s what you should do. It’s a matter of discipline. Until scientists will find a medicine that helps against transsexuality, you LGBTQ people are on your own to fight it. Because it is you who are causing the problem. «Luca», soon you will be very sorry for who you are. You will apologise to all of us normal people.

We can’t allow LGBTQ people to go for their sexual orientation. If everyone did what you do, the world would turn into chaos.       As soon as scientists will find the «transsexual gene», there won’t be any transsexual babies anymore in this world. Then we can get rid of the transsexual perverts from the very beginning.

LGBTQ people won’t have a future, that’s why they should become normal immediately.       And because only 2-3% (others claim 10%) of all people are LGBTQ, we can abandon them. The world population is already large enough, why should we keep the LGBTQ people alive?       It isn’t anything personal, it’s just a job.

Please try to understand that this is necessary.

«Luca», you are what you are. Stop trying to be better than others by altering things that you don’t like about yourself. If you can’t get along with the fact that you are a woman, it’s your own problem. Stop bothering other people with it. In fact you don’t have any problems. All that you’re doing is just a weird idea that comes from the fact that today, everybody is trying to stand out and to be selfish.       «Luca», you are a woman. You have to be with a man. If you don’t attarct any men, you should consider growing your hair longer, wearing makeup and dressing more girly.       I hope you will never have kids. Because you would mess them up.

Please answer this message.

-Sophie M. Herold P.S.: It is absolutely inappropriate to show your bare female chest on the internet. Stop that, will you?

Ditto

Fra Italiensk og betyr «sakt» og brukes i betydningene: det tilsvarende, det samme, det som ble sakt, i lige måde.

Jeg har også lært at det er en pokemon og det gjør meg glad. Den pokemonen kan gjøre seg om til det samme som sin motstander.

Jeg er ditto, ditto er mitt navn.

Det skader aldri å si ditto, for du speiler bare noe som allerede er sakt. Ditto er verdens fineste og ufarlige ord. Du kan komme langt med et ditto, men du kan ikke forandre verden. For den lar seg bare forandre av den første settningen, en kopi kan aldri forandre, den bare er.

«Ditto ser egentlig mest ut som en rosa klump. Den har ikke noen tydelige former, men den er heller ikke heilt rund. Den har en svakt bølgete form. Den har to små prikker som øyne, og en liten munn.»

Fra wikipedia.

Først vil jeg si at jeg elsker det når barn for lov å skrive artikkler til leksikon. Det blir så ektefølt og ærlig. Så beskrivende i sin mangel på beskrivelse.

Jeg er en rosa klump, ufromelig, men ikke helt rund. Når jeg sover forvandles jeg til noe annet. Slik unngår jeg å bli angrepet.

Ditto sier jeg. Og så smiler du.